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People
Who can't cope with their Envy and/or Rejection
And of course, make the
CHOICE
Sadly, in all walks of life you'll encounter both bullies and cowards, and with each there's a common shared theme because, ...usually ...these flaws are combined within the same personality.
Bullies aren't brave, they're cowards.
Any idiot knows that
By bullying, the individual, in part, reveals their underlying issues with these traits. Demonstrating, by choice, their insecurities, lack of personality, any genuine respect, along with their deep seated and significant inadequacies :- lack of social skills, wit and talent.
Like the smallest kid in school, who sets out to prove themself by provoking or insisting on a fight with the biggest. Cowards & Bullies need any kind of validation they can get, as they're generally totally inept.
I.E: by default they're generally ugly, dull, stupid, and have nothing whatsoever of interest to offer.
They're miserable
And this can be readily understood (given the pre-conditions)
The best that they can hope to achieve throughout their life, is to unload their misery onto those they recognise as having the skills, talent, life and any 'things they lack and can never acquire.
In order to attract attention and gain kudos they'll stoop to wild lies of accusation, for character assassination and during the process cry like babies if anyone criticises them, often accusing their victim of the very thing they themselves are guilty of.
The strength they imagine they have is in numbers, because cowards frequently support each other.
They need to.
Few around them are friends, they're just scared and want to avoid being the next victim.
The insults they cast at others are generally the things which are most true about them and not their target.
Now, that's bad if they're 5 or 6 years old, but when their age is in double figures... that's really sad.
I've encountered bullies in their 30s, 40s and 50s...
What does that prove?
Well... they grow old, they don't grow up and they never learn to take responsibility.
How far do we need to look to find the source of the problem for young bullies today?
I'm guessing....
Not far...
As a problem this one has been ongoing and is cyclic in all terms.
One begets another.
It won't change unless a bully is clever enough to take on board the comments of their critics and seriously consider them and what it reveals about their behaviour.
But ... therein lies the problem, these people lack the ability to recognise the truth. Even if they did, they'd deny it.
Deny it
What does it tell you about the character of any 30 - 50 year old who's guilty of that?
What does it say about any group of people in that age group whose enjoyment is based on their self congratulation and self professed success regarding attempts to publically humiliate or ridicule another.
and for what... defence against these group attacks?
It's not hard to spot a bully... they're the empty vessels making most sound...
Creating a hostile environment in the places where the majority just want to enjoy the pleasure of the company of others.
They're the liars who hide behind lies and project their personal 'issues' onto others.
They'll ridicule, for 'fun'
Because that's what they're most Used to themselves.
"Pass it forward" was a great film, but bullying and hatred (although featured) was never what it was intended to be about.
Bullies are people who can't be better and dislike themselves as a result.
They seethe with their perceived injustice when regarding those who they recognise are better, more able, talented etc.
They spit, shout and attempt to batter those, with what they lack, in any way they can.
In so many ways my ideas and views of the world have changed.
When I was a child, Nursing was more than just a profession or source of income, it was a Vocation. It attracted people who we respected, because they Genuinely cared for their patients.
Today I see so called 'Nurses' in training and already in positions involving 'caring' for the elderly and infirm, proclaiming publically how much they enjoy abusing others and making statements which involve 'Fisting' and describing people as "Thick old shit". Also stating:
" Mac ask Bumdand if you can have a lick of his anus."
and "Mac, pull Bumdand cock over your head......like a ........well, like a cock"
and describing others in this way,
"ahhh look at old Rancid Hag with her plastic tits and plastic face"
and who suggests to ranchers, "stick to fisting the steers"
I'm glad I have no elderly or infirm relatives in Scotland.
I don't need to worry about them ever being 'cared for' by THAT Nurse.
Or how about..
Others claiming to be employed in Higher Education, specifically the University of Wales, Newport. Who make public comments like:
" mac, rimming with Byd..... harder, faster, longer.... good boys"
and "the word is fanny, you freaky erectile problem man"
or "shove your nose into byds anus, mac"
Both of them claim to be female and over the age of 35.
One (it seems) is also a Mother - and training to be a Nurse
However, don't take my word for it, see for yourself, they're regularly regurgitating this kind of commentary online on AOL in a public chatroom called "Life Begins At 40"
Perhaps you could try this link:
In addition
Extract from Wikipedia
RE: Nonce / Nonse
"Etymology
With regard to the word's origin, there is evidence for a possible connection with nancy, a derogatory term referring to effeminate or homosexual males, and with a dialectical use of "nonse" to refer to a worthless person.[2] The Oxford English Dictionary, while describing the word's etymology as "Origin unknown", tends to support these ideas, stating that the word is "perhaps related to" nance and cites a quotation which claims the word was derived from nancy-boy, or "perhaps compare English regional nonse good-for-nothing fellow".[4]
In recent years the slang term nonce has come into more widespread use in the UK. Although the term nonce traditionally refers to sex offenders, it is also sometimes used as a general term of abuse, typically with "idiot" as its intended meaning.[6] [7]
This is not to be confused with the other meaning of "nonce" as in Nonce word.
[edit] References
- ^ "Introduction to Prisons". http://evilcity.wikispaces.com/Introduction+to+Prisons.
- ^ a b c "LISTSERV Discussion of origins of 'nonce'". http://listserv.linguistlist.org/cgi-bin/wa?A2=ind0506a&L=ads-l&D=0&P=6698.
- ^ "'Nonce' on Everything2". http://everything2.com/index.pl?node_id=287124.
- ^ Oxford English Dictionary Online, s.v. nonce, n.2.
- ^ "Les Nonces Apostoliques a Damas et Soufanieh". http://www.soufanieh.com/position.nonces.htm. Retrieved 28 July 2009.
- ^ "London Slang". http://www.londonslang.com/db/n/.
- ^ "Peevish Slang Dictionary". http://www.peevish.co.uk/slang/n.htm. "
