Dannyman52 [07:42]: hi
Lara Dared [07:43]: Hello
Dannyman52 [07:43]: how are you
Lara Dared [07:43]: Am I in a chat room and forgotten?
Dannyman52 [07:43]: no
Dannyman52 [07:44]: you are on my buddy list
Lara Dared [07:44]: Ah right, I figured I'd ask
Lara Dared [07:44]: Have we actually chatted before?
Dannyman52 [07:44]: we must have spoke before
Dannyman52 [07:44]: are you an artist
Lara Dared [07:44]: Yes I am
Dannyman52 [07:44]: then we have
Lara Dared [07:44]: you'd only know that if we'd chatted, probably
Dannyman52 [07:45]: yes would have been a lucky guess i think
Lara Dared [07:45]: <smiles> probably
Dannyman52 [07:45]: you are from stafford
Lara Dared [07:46]: correct, in so far as... that's where I live
Dannyman52 [07:46]: from liverpool
Lara Dared [07:46]: Yes, that's right
Dannyman52 [07:47]: was a while ago i very rarely come on here
Dannyman52 [07:47]: you are only one in buddy list
Lara Dared [07:47]: Ah right
Lara Dared [07:47]: you must really like me huh
Dannyman52 [07:47]: yes i did enjoy our chat
Lara Dared [07:48]: <nods> some people would consider it arrogant to suggest they could understand that, but I do
Lara Dared [07:48]: I'm a smart arse, but I'm generally likeable with it
Dannyman52 [07:49]: i have gathered that
Lara Dared [07:49]: it annoys a lot of people actually
Lara Dared [07:49]: good job I find that amusing isn't it
Dannyman52 [07:49]: lol you are a minx
Dannyman52 [07:50]: what have you been up to lately
Lara Dared [07:50]: I've been writing
Dannyman52 [07:51]: cool
Lara Dared [07:51]: Yeah <nods> I think it is
Dannyman52 [07:51]: what you been writing
Lara Dared [07:52]: Well.... it's a complicated series of theories and suggested conclusions
Dannyman52 [07:52]: wow sounds interesting
Lara Dared [07:52]: considering language development
Lara Dared [07:52]: cultural differences and expression
Lara Dared [07:53]: with a twist
Dannyman52 [07:53]: tell me more
Lara Dared [07:53]: does the sound of it really appeal to you?
Dannyman52 [07:54]: i have an open mind and the author does
Dannyman52 [07:54]: so yes
Lara Dared [07:56]: what makes you think I have an open mind?
Dannyman52 [07:56]: i dont know but i said you appealed to me
Dannyman52 [07:57]: but i would say you had an open mind
Dannyman52 [07:57]: and strong personality
Lara Dared [07:57]: You maybe right, why do you consider yourself to have an open mind?
Dannyman52 [07:58]: ill give anybody or anything a go
Dannyman52 [07:58]: as long as it aint life threatning
Lara Dared [07:58]: Interesting
Lara Dared [07:58]: my kettle's just about to boil.... bbiab
Dannyman52 [07:59]: ok
Dannyman52 [08:21]: how was your coffee
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Lara Dared [08:21]: Tea... it was good
Lara Dared [08:22]: I'm just wondering whether or not to make another one with some buttered toast
Dannyman52 [08:22]: oooh how the other half live
Lara Dared [08:22]: what do you do for a living?
Dannyman52 [08:22]: making me hungery
Dannyman52 [08:22]: electrician
Lara Dared [08:23]: Ah right, well.... not least because I don't see the point in avoiding temptation, I'm making myself some tea and some toast
Dannyman52 [08:24]: good girl
Dannyman52 [08:27]: you back
Lara Dared [08:30]: Yes
Dannyman52 [08:30]: how was your toast
Lara Dared [08:30]: Why did you say 'good girl' ?
Lara Dared [08:30]: I've only just started to eat it
Dannyman52 [08:30]: for giving in to temptation
Lara Dared [08:31]: Ah, although, that's not what I actually said
Dannyman52 [08:31]: i know
Lara Dared [08:31]: well... you do now anyway :)
Dannyman52 [08:32]: lol
Dannyman52 [08:32]: you anything planned for today
Lara Dared [08:33]: Yeah, I plan to do exactly what I want when I want to
Dannyman52 [08:33]: cool
Dannyman52 [08:33]: wana meet me in birmingham
Lara Dared [08:33]: Nope, no offense
Dannyman52 [08:33]: none taken
Lara Dared [08:34]: Good
Dannyman52 [08:34]: would you ever meet
Lara Dared [08:34]: Let's just say, at the moment I can't think why I'd consider it?
Dannyman52 [08:35]: you ever met anyone from on here
Lara Dared [08:35]: Yep, few times
Dannyman52 [08:35]: i havent
Dannyman52 [08:35]: yet
Lara Dared [08:36]: well.... people's experiences vary, that's because they involve individuals I guess
Dannyman52 [08:36]: how did your meetings go
Lara Dared [08:37]: In some instances a matter of minutes, in a few considerably longer
Dannyman52 [08:37]: i imagine maybe meeting on here is like reading a book then watching the movie
Lara Dared [08:39]: Yes, in many respects it is, though you may notice aspects apparent that aren't necessarily included in the description as you read it, if that makes sense
Dannyman52 [08:40]: in my expearience i have been dissapointed in movies that i have read the book
Dannyman52 [08:40]: so i would rather see the movie before i got to into the book
Lara Dared [08:40]: Mmm.... yeah, I've had that experience as well
Dannyman52 [08:42]: so do you like staffford
Lara Dared [08:42]: In many ways yes, in a few, no
Dannyman52 [08:42]: what are the things you dont like
Lara Dared [08:43]: I suppose it's the same as everywhere else in some respects
Lara Dared [08:43]: or anywhere else
Dannyman52 [08:44]: you live alone
Lara Dared [08:44]: No, with my children
Dannyman52 [08:44]: what ages if not a rude question
Lara Dared [08:45]: why do you ask?
Dannyman52 [08:45]: just being nosey i guess
Lara Dared [08:45]: I'm sure there's a reason why you're wondering?
Dannyman52 [08:45]: no not at all
Lara Dared [08:46]: Hmm..... okay
Dannyman52 [08:46]: i have two children 25 and 23
Dannyman52 [08:46]: so they are adults really
Lara Dared [08:47]: I have four children, aged between 22 and 14
Dannyman52 [08:47]: some adults then
Lara Dared [08:47]: Yes
Dannyman52 [08:47]: mine have flown nest
Lara Dared [08:48]: I'm realising what my mum meant when she said, "They never really leave"
Dannyman52 [08:48]: i know i worry every day
Lara Dared [08:48]: about what?
Dannyman52 [08:48]: my children
Lara Dared [08:49]: what worries you most?
Dannyman52 [08:49]: are they ok what are they up to
Lara Dared [08:49]: Well... I figure... if they weren't okay, they'd be asking me for help
Dannyman52 [08:49]: yes
Lara Dared [08:49]: and if they want me to know what they're up to... they'll tell me
Dannyman52 [08:50]: but maybe are they up to no good lol
Lara Dared [08:50]: why would you think that?
Lara Dared [08:50]: what do you imagine when you wonder that?
Dannyman52 [08:50]: dunno south london aint the nicest neighbourhood in world
Lara Dared [08:51]: ah right, what activity do you most associate it with?
Dannyman52 [08:51]: its where i grew up and aint as nice a place for them as it was for me
Lara Dared [08:52]: Oh ... I see..... what has changed most?
Dannyman52 [08:52]: culture more of a concrete jungle now
Dannyman52 [08:53]: people dont seem as nice
Lara Dared [08:53]: okay, bbiab, my pups are barking
Dannyman52 [08:53]: more crime
Dannyman52 [08:58]: you there
Lara Dared [08:58]: ah... are you sure it's not just more apparent?
Lara Dared [08:58]: Yes, just returned
Dannyman52 [08:58]: good
Lara Dared [08:59]: I'm glad you approve
Dannyman52 [08:59]: did you grow up in liverepool
Lara Dared [08:59]: Yes I did, well... the suburbs
Dannyman52 [09:00]: knotty ash
Lara Dared [09:00]: No, Netherton and Formby are the two main areas I lived in
Dannyman52 [09:00]: they nice
Lara Dared [09:01]: As places tend to be.... they were beautiful but associated with problems growing up, naturally
Dannyman52 [09:02]: what are you ambitions and goals for the futue
Lara Dared [09:02]: Good question....
Lara Dared [09:02]: and I have several answers
Lara Dared [09:03]: Goals included continuous personal development in all areas
Lara Dared [09:03]: My ambition is to be as good as the best in the areas that specifically interest me
Dannyman52 [09:04]: whic is
Lara Dared [09:04]: Painting, writing, stuff like that
Dannyman52 [09:04]: you published any books
Lara Dared [09:04]: Why do you ask?
Dannyman52 [09:05]: might wanna read one
Lara Dared [09:05]: what sort of books do you enjoy reading most?
Dannyman52 [09:05]: i read anythng that takes my fancy
Lara Dared [07:43]: Hello
Dannyman52 [07:43]: how are you
Lara Dared [07:43]: Am I in a chat room and forgotten?
Dannyman52 [07:43]: no
Dannyman52 [07:44]: you are on my buddy list
Lara Dared [07:44]: Ah right, I figured I'd ask
Lara Dared [07:44]: Have we actually chatted before?
Dannyman52 [07:44]: we must have spoke before
Dannyman52 [07:44]: are you an artist
Lara Dared [07:44]: Yes I am
Dannyman52 [07:44]: then we have
Lara Dared [07:44]: you'd only know that if we'd chatted, probably
Dannyman52 [07:45]: yes would have been a lucky guess i think
Lara Dared [07:45]: <smiles> probably
Dannyman52 [07:45]: you are from stafford
Lara Dared [07:46]: correct, in so far as... that's where I live
Dannyman52 [07:46]: from liverpool
Lara Dared [07:46]: Yes, that's right
Dannyman52 [07:47]: was a while ago i very rarely come on here
Dannyman52 [07:47]: you are only one in buddy list
Lara Dared [07:47]: Ah right
Lara Dared [07:47]: you must really like me huh
Dannyman52 [07:47]: yes i did enjoy our chat
Lara Dared [07:48]: <nods> some people would consider it arrogant to suggest they could understand that, but I do
Lara Dared [07:48]: I'm a smart arse, but I'm generally likeable with it
Dannyman52 [07:49]: i have gathered that
Lara Dared [07:49]: it annoys a lot of people actually
Lara Dared [07:49]: good job I find that amusing isn't it
Dannyman52 [07:49]: lol you are a minx
Dannyman52 [07:50]: what have you been up to lately
Lara Dared [07:50]: I've been writing
Dannyman52 [07:51]: cool
Lara Dared [07:51]: Yeah <nods> I think it is
Dannyman52 [07:51]: what you been writing
Lara Dared [07:52]: Well.... it's a complicated series of theories and suggested conclusions
Dannyman52 [07:52]: wow sounds interesting
Lara Dared [07:52]: considering language development
Lara Dared [07:52]: cultural differences and expression
Lara Dared [07:53]: with a twist
Dannyman52 [07:53]: tell me more
Lara Dared [07:53]: does the sound of it really appeal to you?
Dannyman52 [07:54]: i have an open mind and the author does
Dannyman52 [07:54]: so yes
Lara Dared [07:56]: what makes you think I have an open mind?
Dannyman52 [07:56]: i dont know but i said you appealed to me
Dannyman52 [07:57]: but i would say you had an open mind
Dannyman52 [07:57]: and strong personality
Lara Dared [07:57]: You maybe right, why do you consider yourself to have an open mind?
Dannyman52 [07:58]: ill give anybody or anything a go
Dannyman52 [07:58]: as long as it aint life threatning
Lara Dared [07:58]: Interesting
Lara Dared [07:58]: my kettle's just about to boil.... bbiab
Dannyman52 [07:59]: ok
Dannyman52 [08:21]: how was your coffee
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Lara Dared [08:21]: Tea... it was good
Lara Dared [08:22]: I'm just wondering whether or not to make another one with some buttered toast
Dannyman52 [08:22]: oooh how the other half live
Lara Dared [08:22]: what do you do for a living?
Dannyman52 [08:22]: making me hungery
Dannyman52 [08:22]: electrician
Lara Dared [08:23]: Ah right, well.... not least because I don't see the point in avoiding temptation, I'm making myself some tea and some toast
Dannyman52 [08:24]: good girl
Dannyman52 [08:27]: you back
Lara Dared [08:30]: Yes
Dannyman52 [08:30]: how was your toast
Lara Dared [08:30]: Why did you say 'good girl' ?
Lara Dared [08:30]: I've only just started to eat it
Dannyman52 [08:30]: for giving in to temptation
Lara Dared [08:31]: Ah, although, that's not what I actually said
Dannyman52 [08:31]: i know
Lara Dared [08:31]: well... you do now anyway :)
Dannyman52 [08:32]: lol
Dannyman52 [08:32]: you anything planned for today
Lara Dared [08:33]: Yeah, I plan to do exactly what I want when I want to
Dannyman52 [08:33]: cool
Dannyman52 [08:33]: wana meet me in birmingham
Lara Dared [08:33]: Nope, no offense
Dannyman52 [08:33]: none taken
Lara Dared [08:34]: Good
Dannyman52 [08:34]: would you ever meet
Lara Dared [08:34]: Let's just say, at the moment I can't think why I'd consider it?
Dannyman52 [08:35]: you ever met anyone from on here
Lara Dared [08:35]: Yep, few times
Dannyman52 [08:35]: i havent
Dannyman52 [08:35]: yet
Lara Dared [08:36]: well.... people's experiences vary, that's because they involve individuals I guess
Dannyman52 [08:36]: how did your meetings go
Lara Dared [08:37]: In some instances a matter of minutes, in a few considerably longer
Dannyman52 [08:37]: i imagine maybe meeting on here is like reading a book then watching the movie
Lara Dared [08:39]: Yes, in many respects it is, though you may notice aspects apparent that aren't necessarily included in the description as you read it, if that makes sense
Dannyman52 [08:40]: in my expearience i have been dissapointed in movies that i have read the book
Dannyman52 [08:40]: so i would rather see the movie before i got to into the book
Lara Dared [08:40]: Mmm.... yeah, I've had that experience as well
Dannyman52 [08:42]: so do you like staffford
Lara Dared [08:42]: In many ways yes, in a few, no
Dannyman52 [08:42]: what are the things you dont like
Lara Dared [08:43]: I suppose it's the same as everywhere else in some respects
Lara Dared [08:43]: or anywhere else
Dannyman52 [08:44]: you live alone
Lara Dared [08:44]: No, with my children
Dannyman52 [08:44]: what ages if not a rude question
Lara Dared [08:45]: why do you ask?
Dannyman52 [08:45]: just being nosey i guess
Lara Dared [08:45]: I'm sure there's a reason why you're wondering?
Dannyman52 [08:45]: no not at all
Lara Dared [08:46]: Hmm..... okay
Dannyman52 [08:46]: i have two children 25 and 23
Dannyman52 [08:46]: so they are adults really
Lara Dared [08:47]: I have four children, aged between 22 and 14
Dannyman52 [08:47]: some adults then
Lara Dared [08:47]: Yes
Dannyman52 [08:47]: mine have flown nest
Lara Dared [08:48]: I'm realising what my mum meant when she said, "They never really leave"
Dannyman52 [08:48]: i know i worry every day
Lara Dared [08:48]: about what?
Dannyman52 [08:48]: my children
Lara Dared [08:49]: what worries you most?
Dannyman52 [08:49]: are they ok what are they up to
Lara Dared [08:49]: Well... I figure... if they weren't okay, they'd be asking me for help
Dannyman52 [08:49]: yes
Lara Dared [08:49]: and if they want me to know what they're up to... they'll tell me
Dannyman52 [08:50]: but maybe are they up to no good lol
Lara Dared [08:50]: why would you think that?
Lara Dared [08:50]: what do you imagine when you wonder that?
Dannyman52 [08:50]: dunno south london aint the nicest neighbourhood in world
Lara Dared [08:51]: ah right, what activity do you most associate it with?
Dannyman52 [08:51]: its where i grew up and aint as nice a place for them as it was for me
Lara Dared [08:52]: Oh ... I see..... what has changed most?
Dannyman52 [08:52]: culture more of a concrete jungle now
Dannyman52 [08:53]: people dont seem as nice
Lara Dared [08:53]: okay, bbiab, my pups are barking
Dannyman52 [08:53]: more crime
Dannyman52 [08:58]: you there
Lara Dared [08:58]: ah... are you sure it's not just more apparent?
Lara Dared [08:58]: Yes, just returned
Dannyman52 [08:58]: good
Lara Dared [08:59]: I'm glad you approve
Dannyman52 [08:59]: did you grow up in liverepool
Lara Dared [08:59]: Yes I did, well... the suburbs
Dannyman52 [09:00]: knotty ash
Lara Dared [09:00]: No, Netherton and Formby are the two main areas I lived in
Dannyman52 [09:00]: they nice
Lara Dared [09:01]: As places tend to be.... they were beautiful but associated with problems growing up, naturally
Dannyman52 [09:02]: what are you ambitions and goals for the futue
Lara Dared [09:02]: Good question....
Lara Dared [09:02]: and I have several answers
Lara Dared [09:03]: Goals included continuous personal development in all areas
Lara Dared [09:03]: My ambition is to be as good as the best in the areas that specifically interest me
Dannyman52 [09:04]: whic is
Lara Dared [09:04]: Painting, writing, stuff like that
Dannyman52 [09:04]: you published any books
Lara Dared [09:04]: Why do you ask?
Dannyman52 [09:05]: might wanna read one
Lara Dared [09:05]: what sort of books do you enjoy reading most?
Dannyman52 [09:05]: i read anythng that takes my fancy
Lara Dared [09:06]: Ah, okay.... so what book did you read last?
Dannyman52 [09:06]: monsoon
Lara Dared [09:06]: Is that fiction?
Dannyman52 [09:06]: yes
Lara Dared [09:07]: I see, so.... what happens... what kind of story is it?
Dannyman52 [09:07]: its an african adventure seat a few hundred years ago
Dannyman52 [09:08]: it was a ripping yarn
Lara Dared [09:08]: bit grisly?
Dannyman52 [09:08]: in places but tastfully done
Lara Dared [09:09]: any cannibals involved?
Dannyman52 [09:09]: no
Lara Dared [09:09]: spears, daggers, hands on and riflery?
Dannyman52 [09:09]: plenty of that
Lara Dared [09:09]: okay
Lara Dared [09:10]: what did you find most interesting about that?
Dannyman52 [09:10]: the story
Lara Dared [09:10]: why it happened... you mean?
Dannyman52 [09:11]: yes it was centred round an english family
Dannyman52 [09:11]: over 600 pages
Lara Dared [09:11]: do you recall who wrote it?
Dannyman52 [09:11]: wilbur smith
Lara Dared [09:11]: I think I've read it
Dannyman52 [09:12]: get away
Dannyman52 [09:12]: you like wilbur
Lara Dared [09:12]: It's an old book, not recent ... am I right?
Dannyman52 [09:12]: yeah it aint a new book dont hink a mate gave ity to me
Lara Dared [09:12]: My Dad liked his books, I read a few to get an impression
Dannyman52 [09:13]: i have read a few of his too
Lara Dared [09:13]: There were several by Wilbur Smith in my Dad's collection
Dannyman52 [09:13]: did you enjoy them
Lara Dared [09:13]: I've read Monsoon, though I'd forgotten the title
Lara Dared [09:13]: I enjoyed considering the situations the characters were in
Dannyman52 [09:14]: savage tmes
Lara Dared [09:14]: what circumstances had contributed to it and in what way
Dannyman52 [09:14]: hard to imagine that humans were so cold and cruel
Lara Dared [09:15]: is it?
Dannyman52 [09:15]: i think so
Lara Dared [09:15]: Why?
Dannyman52 [09:16]: well if the book is true
Lara Dared [09:16]: Yes?
Dannyman52 [09:16]: and people were like what they were i think they were pretty cruel
Lara Dared [09:17]: What's good about fiction is that it gives each reader the opportunity to make a choice about the content
Lara Dared [09:18]: like a fairy tale or legend, a moral issue to decide
Dannyman52 [09:18]: true i have a picture of everybody in the bok in my mind and the ships and the places that they visited
Dannyman52 [09:19]: but th eactions are there in #8b0915 and white
Lara Dared [09:19]: it can provide you with a realistic scenario, various motivations set and implied, so you can imagine why the story is described in the way that it is and make conclusions - what would you do stuff
Dannyman52 [09:20]: i would have hated to live in tose times
Lara Dared [09:20]: Why?
Dannyman52 [09:20]: but if i did i wouldn't have expearinced the times we are in now
Dannyman52 [09:21]: so i guess it would have felt normal
Lara Dared [09:21]: What are the main differences between the two times in your mind?
Dannyman52 [09:21]: the cruelty
Lara Dared [09:21]: you think there's more cruelty in the past than nowadays?
Dannyman52 [09:22]: maybe not thinking about it but it seemed the norm then
Lara Dared [09:22]: What do you think has caused the change... even if it's only in perception?
Dannyman52 [09:23]: we have becme more ciclised
Dannyman52 [09:23]: civilised
Lara Dared [09:24]: nice word civilised, if you had to explain what it meant to a child, how would you describe it?
Dannyman52 [09:24]: to be honest caring and to respect others
Lara Dared [09:25]: Good answer
Dannyman52 [09:26]: there will always be strong and wek people so i guess we look after the weak more now
Dannyman52 [09:26]: instead of letting them die
Lara Dared [09:27]: Hm, I don't think I agree.... I think perhaps it's more likely that we intrinsically appreciate that they have some other value which is different to brawn
Lara Dared [09:28]: as for letting others die, that implies a decision ability that influences someone else's life
Dannyman52 [09:28]: maybe that was a bit strong
Lara Dared [09:28]: there's another word for it actually
Dannyman52 [09:29]: which is
Lara Dared [09:29]: Hm.... thinking it could be 'choice' or maybe 'responsibility' or something like that
Dannyman52 [09:06]: monsoon
Lara Dared [09:06]: Is that fiction?
Dannyman52 [09:06]: yes
Lara Dared [09:07]: I see, so.... what happens... what kind of story is it?
Dannyman52 [09:07]: its an african adventure seat a few hundred years ago
Dannyman52 [09:08]: it was a ripping yarn
Lara Dared [09:08]: bit grisly?
Dannyman52 [09:08]: in places but tastfully done
Lara Dared [09:09]: any cannibals involved?
Dannyman52 [09:09]: no
Lara Dared [09:09]: spears, daggers, hands on and riflery?
Dannyman52 [09:09]: plenty of that
Lara Dared [09:09]: okay
Lara Dared [09:10]: what did you find most interesting about that?
Dannyman52 [09:10]: the story
Lara Dared [09:10]: why it happened... you mean?
Dannyman52 [09:11]: yes it was centred round an english family
Dannyman52 [09:11]: over 600 pages
Lara Dared [09:11]: do you recall who wrote it?
Dannyman52 [09:11]: wilbur smith
Lara Dared [09:11]: I think I've read it
Dannyman52 [09:12]: get away
Dannyman52 [09:12]: you like wilbur
Lara Dared [09:12]: It's an old book, not recent ... am I right?
Dannyman52 [09:12]: yeah it aint a new book dont hink a mate gave ity to me
Lara Dared [09:12]: My Dad liked his books, I read a few to get an impression
Dannyman52 [09:13]: i have read a few of his too
Lara Dared [09:13]: There were several by Wilbur Smith in my Dad's collection
Dannyman52 [09:13]: did you enjoy them
Lara Dared [09:13]: I've read Monsoon, though I'd forgotten the title
Lara Dared [09:13]: I enjoyed considering the situations the characters were in
Dannyman52 [09:14]: savage tmes
Lara Dared [09:14]: what circumstances had contributed to it and in what way
Dannyman52 [09:14]: hard to imagine that humans were so cold and cruel
Lara Dared [09:15]: is it?
Dannyman52 [09:15]: i think so
Lara Dared [09:15]: Why?
Dannyman52 [09:16]: well if the book is true
Lara Dared [09:16]: Yes?
Dannyman52 [09:16]: and people were like what they were i think they were pretty cruel
Lara Dared [09:17]: What's good about fiction is that it gives each reader the opportunity to make a choice about the content
Lara Dared [09:18]: like a fairy tale or legend, a moral issue to decide
Dannyman52 [09:18]: true i have a picture of everybody in the bok in my mind and the ships and the places that they visited
Dannyman52 [09:19]: but th eactions are there in #8b0915 and white
Lara Dared [09:19]: it can provide you with a realistic scenario, various motivations set and implied, so you can imagine why the story is described in the way that it is and make conclusions - what would you do stuff
Dannyman52 [09:20]: i would have hated to live in tose times
Lara Dared [09:20]: Why?
Dannyman52 [09:20]: but if i did i wouldn't have expearinced the times we are in now
Dannyman52 [09:21]: so i guess it would have felt normal
Lara Dared [09:21]: What are the main differences between the two times in your mind?
Dannyman52 [09:21]: the cruelty
Lara Dared [09:21]: you think there's more cruelty in the past than nowadays?
Dannyman52 [09:22]: maybe not thinking about it but it seemed the norm then
Lara Dared [09:22]: What do you think has caused the change... even if it's only in perception?
Dannyman52 [09:23]: we have becme more ciclised
Dannyman52 [09:23]: civilised
Lara Dared [09:24]: nice word civilised, if you had to explain what it meant to a child, how would you describe it?
Dannyman52 [09:24]: to be honest caring and to respect others
Lara Dared [09:25]: Good answer
Dannyman52 [09:26]: there will always be strong and wek people so i guess we look after the weak more now
Dannyman52 [09:26]: instead of letting them die
Lara Dared [09:27]: Hm, I don't think I agree.... I think perhaps it's more likely that we intrinsically appreciate that they have some other value which is different to brawn
Lara Dared [09:28]: as for letting others die, that implies a decision ability that influences someone else's life
Dannyman52 [09:28]: maybe that was a bit strong
Lara Dared [09:28]: there's another word for it actually
Dannyman52 [09:29]: which is
Lara Dared [09:29]: Hm.... thinking it could be 'choice' or maybe 'responsibility' or something like that
Dannyman52 [09:31]: yes its a hard one
Dannyman52 [09:31]: but now we have a thing called learning difficultis
Dannyman52 [09:31]: when i was a boy they were just thick
Lara Dared [09:31]: do you like irony?
Dannyman52 [09:32]: so mi guess if you take that thory back a couple centuries
Lara Dared [09:32]: Yes?
Dannyman52 [09:33]: that's how we are not so cruel
Lara Dared [09:33]: by calling them 'special needs' instead of 'thick' ?
Dannyman52 [09:33]: its better
Lara Dared [09:34]: well... it's certainly 'different'
Dannyman52 [09:34]: lol
Dannyman52 [09:35]: think we are also pushing people into education
Lara Dared [09:35]: why do you think that?
Dannyman52 [09:36]: a lot of people specially youngsters are going into further education for degrees ect that they are never going to turn into cash
Lara Dared [09:38]: why do you think that?
Dannyman52 [09:39]: because some people are born to be doctors barristers ect and others are born to stack shelves at tescos
Dannyman52 [09:40]: we are iinterfeing with the balance
Dannyman52 [09:43]: am not saying i agree with that but ifear it is true
Lara Dared [09:46]: why would you be frightened of that?
Lara Dared [09:46]: aren't there enough people stacking the shelves at Tesco?
Dannyman52 [09:46]: am not frightened of it
Lara Dared [09:46]: you said, "I Fear it is true"
Dannyman52 [09:47]: we just have a lot of dissapointed young people
Lara Dared [09:47]: what convinces you they'll be disappointed?
Dannyman52 [09:47]: and also unemmployed
Lara Dared [09:47]: unemployed shelf stackers?
Dannyman52 [09:48]: no people have worked for something that they are no allowed to cachieve
Lara Dared [09:48]: what do you think disappointed intelligent people do?
Dannyman52 [09:48]: stack shelves at tescos
Lara Dared [09:49]: then you don't know what intelligent means?
Dannyman52 [09:49]: if there is no job available to meet your quals you have to downgrade
Lara Dared [09:49]: Who said?
Dannyman52 [09:50]: its supply and demand
Lara Dared [09:50]: Oh
Lara Dared [09:50]: and anyone intelligent should recognise there's more potential in stacking shelves for Tesco?
Lara Dared [09:51]: Tell me, do you also think they'd always think that?
Dannyman52 [09:51]: yes of course but with 100 apps for each job
Dannyman52 [09:51]: dont know
Lara Dared [09:51]: I do
Dannyman52 [09:52]: did you know there is a shortage of electricians
Lara Dared [09:52]: I've heard it said
Dannyman52 [09:52]: we have a thing now called an adult rainee
Dannyman52 [09:52]: trainnee
Lara Dared [09:53]: people retraining, learning how to be electricians as mature adults?
Dannyman52 [09:53]: they do basically same job but for about 6 pound an less
Lara Dared [09:53]: Ah right
Dannyman52 [09:54]: now companys are looking for experieced adult trainees rather than electricians to save money
Lara Dared [09:54]: makes business sense
Dannyman52 [09:54]: it does but it is right
Lara Dared [09:54]: they won't remain trainees for ever
Dannyman52 [09:55]: why did i bother doing an apprenticeship
Lara Dared [09:55]: they have their sights set on the additional £6 per hour eventually
Lara Dared [09:55]: you were paid less as an apprentice
Dannyman52 [09:55]: most will never quailify
Lara Dared [09:55]: you undercut people when you started earning on your own
Lara Dared [09:55]: now don't pretend you didn't
Dannyman52 [09:56]: that's business
Lara Dared [09:56]: you knew it was part of the process
Lara Dared [09:56]: so don't act so surprised now
Dannyman52 [09:31]: but now we have a thing called learning difficultis
Dannyman52 [09:31]: when i was a boy they were just thick
Lara Dared [09:31]: do you like irony?
Dannyman52 [09:32]: so mi guess if you take that thory back a couple centuries
Lara Dared [09:32]: Yes?
Dannyman52 [09:33]: that's how we are not so cruel
Lara Dared [09:33]: by calling them 'special needs' instead of 'thick' ?
Dannyman52 [09:33]: its better
Lara Dared [09:34]: well... it's certainly 'different'
Dannyman52 [09:34]: lol
Dannyman52 [09:35]: think we are also pushing people into education
Lara Dared [09:35]: why do you think that?
Dannyman52 [09:36]: a lot of people specially youngsters are going into further education for degrees ect that they are never going to turn into cash
Lara Dared [09:38]: why do you think that?
Dannyman52 [09:39]: because some people are born to be doctors barristers ect and others are born to stack shelves at tescos
Dannyman52 [09:40]: we are iinterfeing with the balance
Dannyman52 [09:43]: am not saying i agree with that but ifear it is true
Lara Dared [09:46]: why would you be frightened of that?
Lara Dared [09:46]: aren't there enough people stacking the shelves at Tesco?
Dannyman52 [09:46]: am not frightened of it
Lara Dared [09:46]: you said, "I Fear it is true"
Dannyman52 [09:47]: we just have a lot of dissapointed young people
Lara Dared [09:47]: what convinces you they'll be disappointed?
Dannyman52 [09:47]: and also unemmployed
Lara Dared [09:47]: unemployed shelf stackers?
Dannyman52 [09:48]: no people have worked for something that they are no allowed to cachieve
Lara Dared [09:48]: what do you think disappointed intelligent people do?
Dannyman52 [09:48]: stack shelves at tescos
Lara Dared [09:49]: then you don't know what intelligent means?
Dannyman52 [09:49]: if there is no job available to meet your quals you have to downgrade
Lara Dared [09:49]: Who said?
Dannyman52 [09:50]: its supply and demand
Lara Dared [09:50]: Oh
Lara Dared [09:50]: and anyone intelligent should recognise there's more potential in stacking shelves for Tesco?
Lara Dared [09:51]: Tell me, do you also think they'd always think that?
Dannyman52 [09:51]: yes of course but with 100 apps for each job
Dannyman52 [09:51]: dont know
Lara Dared [09:51]: I do
Dannyman52 [09:52]: did you know there is a shortage of electricians
Lara Dared [09:52]: I've heard it said
Dannyman52 [09:52]: we have a thing now called an adult rainee
Dannyman52 [09:52]: trainnee
Lara Dared [09:53]: people retraining, learning how to be electricians as mature adults?
Dannyman52 [09:53]: they do basically same job but for about 6 pound an less
Lara Dared [09:53]: Ah right
Dannyman52 [09:54]: now companys are looking for experieced adult trainees rather than electricians to save money
Lara Dared [09:54]: makes business sense
Dannyman52 [09:54]: it does but it is right
Lara Dared [09:54]: they won't remain trainees for ever
Dannyman52 [09:55]: why did i bother doing an apprenticeship
Lara Dared [09:55]: they have their sights set on the additional £6 per hour eventually
Lara Dared [09:55]: you were paid less as an apprentice
Dannyman52 [09:55]: most will never quailify
Lara Dared [09:55]: you undercut people when you started earning on your own
Lara Dared [09:55]: now don't pretend you didn't
Dannyman52 [09:56]: that's business
Lara Dared [09:56]: you knew it was part of the process
Lara Dared [09:56]: so don't act so surprised now
Dannyman52 [10:00]: i have to go i need to be somewhere at 10 30
Dannyman52 [10:00]: speak soon i hope xx
Lara Dared [10:00]: Okie doke, have a good day \o
Dannyman52 [10:00]: speak soon i hope xx
Lara Dared [10:00]: Okie doke, have a good day \o
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